I agree on all counts - from the box they've made for him and getting confused between John and Jack.

I do think there's a point where people not seeing things that seem clear to me may be honestly just not seeing it (I still dont' see Doctor/Rose romance in canon, though I know it's apparently there, it's not conveyed in a way that rings 'romance' bells for me.) but taking it out on Gwen? Not okay. Taking it out on Eve? Even less okay, and makes me wonder about that confusion issue even more, and makes me growly.

And YAY fic.