The one in which I flatter myself...

[jadesfire]

I've had to have a tidy up of my friends list, purely for self-preservation - I can't be skipping 100 entries every morning to see what everyone's up to. And there are people who I thought were on the list who turned out not to be. So.

I don't think I trimmed my list too drastically, and I don't think I write anything fascinating enough under friends-lock that anyone will be too disappointed. I'm half-expecting to get a lot of sighs of relief...

Friends lists are funny things, and very personal - I'm taking my time about friending back at the moment, mostly due to a down-turn in the amount of time I have to read. So friend or defriend (that's a verb? seriously?) at will, and I will do the same and (hopefully) no hard feelings.

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[becky-h.livejournal.com]

I really admire you doing that - I just do. I need to do that over here, and I just don't have the nerve. Maybe I'll make it a New Year's resolution.

[jadesfire2808.livejournal.com]

I figure people who are miffed about it can let me know, but people who know me will get it. It was a bit "Gulp...should I do this?" but I'm missing stuff I really want to see, and am too swamped to read anything really. So, scary but worth it. Until I get flamed ;)

[becky-h.livejournal.com]

If anyone flames you, I'm sure those people who do know you will circle the wagons, because you're right - very much necessary for your own peace of mind.

...And saying this to you is good for me. *wanders off to contemplate and grow a spine*

[jadesfire2808.livejournal.com]

It was pretty much a matter of closing my eyes and hitting 'post' and it took me half an hour to word the message...

And thanks :)